I was really disappointed that the community control of secret lolita in Spanish, if you want to say something, just say so and that's it. Most lolitas (globally speaking) make us look stupid.
I tired, I am shocked, I burst...
Sometimes I think they do not belong to any community full of taboos and just be me, me and that's Lolita, but what if I do not "fit" between the majority of these people?
The society sucks, follow the culture that follow.